tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7370148361745550566.post611451712521403906..comments2011-05-26T12:38:14.293-07:00Comments on Too Much Information: Too Much Information...or Maybe Just EnoughThatFreshnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00304828329172091380noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7370148361745550566.post-51262912871197117642011-05-09T17:02:55.348-07:002011-05-09T17:02:55.348-07:00"I realized that the closet has the effect of..."I realized that the closet has the effect of magnifying the perceived threat of exposure. If I were outed as kinky, it most likely wouldn’t be horrible for me. Most people wouldn’t care. But the act of hiding it actually makes it feel shameful, even if that’s not what I believe."<br /><br />Yep, I definitely identify with this. I think most people in my life would just giggle and tell me their kinky secret if they knew - but all the work I do to separate my kinky identity and my vanilla identity, especially online, makes it seem like a bigger deal than it it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com